I have tested and tested and tested to find what works for me. I’ve found various protocols that work, some better than others, and I’ve found what my body doesn’t react to well. Even when I find what works, I still have another project in the works where I’m trying to find out if there is something more optimal for me. That being said there are specific guidelines I generally always follow.
Protein with every meal, try and keep it to whole food as much as possible, limit carbs to when you need them (around a workout, more after than before), and if it poops or grows it’s probably not bad for you to eat. These are general guidelines that fit into almost every nutritional protocol. There are things I tweak such as glycemic load, nutrient timing, timed fasts, processed vs unprocessed and a myriad of other issues.
When I work with my clients, I have an extensive questionnaire process and on-going dialogue to see how clients react to various things constantly tweaking to better suit their goals, and their body types. I could go write a diet for someone, but it would just be a diet, one that may work one that may not, ultimately it’s the continuing dialogue and tweaking that helps really fine tune it to the client. I have a long foundation of watching results and examining reactions but even then I’m not going to get it all right in the first go, there’s always changes that can be made to make it more efficient and better suited to someone.
As far as my busy lifestyle goes -I’m a big fan of preparing food ahead of time, and using fasting periods. I work 15 hour days most days and my first meal is around 2 PM or so - something I’ve usually cooked up earlier in the week or the night before. If I had a bit more time I’d probably bump this up as I don’t care for fasting that long as I feel my energy levels waver a tad in the noon-2 timeframe or if I push it out to 4 PM I start feeling a bit groggy too. This is what I currently do, because it fits my schedule. I get most of my calories post workout (about 2500-3k or so). I’m also trying to make weight for a meet right now, if I were in more off-season mode and able to let my weight travel up slightly, I’d eat more often and get more calories in. This is just what is working for me and my schedule currently.
Preparation is key both mentally and physically. Physically prepare your meals and have them, mentally know you’re going to eat it when you need to, not necessarily when you want to. I WANT to eat all the time. I’m a glutonous fool that loves food, but I don’t NEED to eat all the time. It’s a matter of mental toughness and preparation.